How to Choose the Right Size in Nearer The Moon Lingerie

Quick answer

Start with your measurements, not your usual dress size. For bras, measure your underbust and full bust and check the cup options before ordering. For corsets, choose by your natural waist measurement in inches, not your clothing size. For knickers, use your hip measurement and the listed size range. Because Nearer The Moon pieces are cut and stitched once you order, getting the size right the first time matters more than with mass-produced lingerie.

Ordering made-to-order lingerie changes how you should think about sizing. Nearer The Moon pieces are cut and stitched once you order, with a 10–14 day production window, so a wrong size means a longer wait for an exchange rather than a quick swap off a shelf. The good news is that the sizing logic is consistent once you know which measurement each garment type actually uses.

This guide walks through the decision rules for bras, corsets, and knickers, plus the fit checks that tell you whether to size up, size down, or request custom sizing. It focuses on the specific products in the Nearer The Moon range so you can match your measurements to real options rather than generic advice.

Measure first, then match to the size chart

Take three measurements with a soft tape: underbust, full bust, and natural waist. For knickers, add your hip measurement at the fullest point. Wear a non-padded bra or no bra when measuring your bust, and keep the tape level and snug but not tight. Write the numbers down in inches and centimeters so you can compare against whichever unit the size chart uses.

The most common sizing mistake is choosing the size you wear in a different brand. Nearer The Moon bras and corsets use their own size ranges, and the corset sizing is based on your natural waist in inches rather than a dress size. If your measurements fall between two sizes, the product pages tell you to refer to the sizing page and offer custom sizing when needed.

• Measure at the end of the day when your body is at its natural size, not first thing in the morning.
• Keep the tape parallel to the floor for underbust and waist measurements.
• If one measurement sits between sizes, size to the larger measurement for corsets and to the band measurement for bras.

Bra sizing: band first, cup second

For bras, the underbust measurement determines the band, and the difference between full bust and underbust determines the cup. A 3-row hook and eye fastening, like the one on the Nocturne Soft Bra, gives you some adjustment room, but the band should still feel snug on the loosest hook when new. If the band rides up at the back, it is too loose; if it digs in and leaves marks, it is too tight.

Cup shape matters as much as cup size. The Nocturne Soft Bra is a wireless sheer lace full cup with a deep V neckline, which suits a fuller coverage preference. The Root Bra uses a plunge wire balconette shape, which sits lower and works better under open necklines. The Tendril Bra is a plunge wire with a ruched cup, which adds a bit of volume and softness across the bust.

• If the center front of the bra does not sit flat against your sternum, the cup is likely too small.
• If the cup wrinkles or gapes at the top, try a smaller cup or a different shape rather than a smaller band.
• Wireless styles like the Nocturne Soft Bra have more forgiveness in the cup than wired plunge shapes.

Corset sizing: use your natural waist in inches

Corset sizing is the one place where your clothing size is almost irrelevant. The Lace Corset Stays are available in sizes 28–40 B–F, and that number refers to your natural waist measurement in inches, not your dress size. Measure your waist at its narrowest point, usually just above the navel, without sucking in. If you are between sizes, choose the larger size and rely on the dual satin ribbon lace-up front to adjust the fit.

The Lace Corset Stays have a boned corset-style structure with wide shoulder straps and ribbon tie details at the shoulders and hem. That structure means the corset will not stretch much over time, so the initial fit needs to be right. If your waist measurement falls outside 28–40, or your cup size falls outside B–F, the product page notes that custom sizing may be required.

• Measure your natural waist, not the waist of a garment you already own.
• The lace-up front gives roughly a few inches of adjustment, so do not size down hoping to cinch more.
• If you are between corset sizes and plan to wear it for long periods, size up for comfort.

Knicker sizing: hip measurement and coverage level

Knickers are the most forgiving category, but coverage still affects fit. The Hi Waist Knicker is available in sizes 6–22 and uses sheer powernet with a high cut leg and generous coverage front and back. The Low Knicker uses the same size range and fabric but sits low on the hip with a modest leg cut. Both have high stretch and strong recovery, so they move with you rather than digging in.

Choose your knicker size by hip measurement and then decide on coverage. If you want a secure, held-in feel under a dress or skirt, the Hi Waist Knicker is the safer pick. If you prefer something that disappears under low-rise clothing, the Low Knicker sits below the natural waist. If your hip measurement falls between sizes, size up for the high waist and stay true to size for the low rise.

• Check the size range on each knicker style, since both list sizes 6–22 but fit differently at the waist.
• If you are between sizes and want more coverage, size up in the Hi Waist Knicker.
• If you are between sizes and want a lower profile, stay with your measured size in the Low Knicker.

Fit checks before you commit to a size

Before ordering, do a quick fit check against the product description. For bras, confirm the cup shape matches how you want the neckline to look. For corsets, confirm your waist measurement is inside the listed range and that you are comfortable with the level of structure. For knickers, confirm the rise and leg cut suit the outfits you plan to wear them with.

Because every piece is cut and stitched once you order, there is a 10–14 day production window before shipping. That makes a pre-order fit check worth the extra five minutes. If your measurements sit at the edge of a size range, or you need a combination the standard sizes do not cover, the product pages point you to the sizing page and custom sizing option.

• Re-measure once before ordering rather than relying on numbers from months ago.
• If you are ordering a set, size each piece independently rather than assuming one size fits all.
• Note the 10–14 day production window when planning for a specific date or event.

Decision rules for Nearer The Moon sizing

• Bra: band feels snug on the loosest hook: Measure your underbust for the band and your full bust for the cup. The Nocturne Soft Bra, Root Bra, and Tendril Bra each use different cup constructions, so match the shape to your preference before choosing the size. If the band rides up or the center front does not sit flat, adjust the size before ordering.
• Corset: waist measurement in inches, not dress size: The Lace Corset Stays come in sizes 28-40 B-F. Measure your natural waist at its narrowest point. If you are between sizes, size up and use the lace-up front for adjustment. If your waist or cup falls outside the listed range, request custom sizing through the product page.
• Knicker: hip measurement plus coverage choice: Both the Hi Waist Knicker and Low Knicker come in sizes 6-22. Choose by hip measurement, then decide whether you want high coverage or a low rise. Size up in the Hi Waist Knicker if you are between sizes; stay true to size in the Low Knicker.
• Timing: plan for a 10-14 day production window: Every piece is cut and stitched once you order, so there is no off-the-shelf exchange. Measure carefully before ordering if you need the piece for a specific date. Order early and double-check measurements rather than guessing.

Product facts that affect sizing

• Nocturne Soft Bra: Wireless sheer lace full cup with a 3 row hook and eye fastening and fully adjustable black satin elastic straps, available in sizes by option. The wireless full cup shape has more forgiveness in the cup than a wired plunge, so if you are between cup sizes this is the more flexible choice.
• Lace Corset Stays: Available in sizes 28-40 B-F, with a dual satin ribbon lace-up front and gold eyelet hardware, and the product page advises referring to the sizing page and requesting custom sizing if needed. The 28-40 range refers to natural waist inches, so you must measure your waist rather than choose your usual clothing size.
• Hi Waist Knicker: Available in sizes 6-22, with sheer powernet, high cut leg, and generous coverage front and back. The high waist and generous coverage mean you should size by hip measurement and consider sizing up if you are between sizes.
• Low Knicker: Available in sizes 6-22, with a low rise silhouette that sits below the natural waist and a modest leg cut. The lower rise sits differently from the high waist, so if you are between sizes you can stay true to size for a closer, lower fit.

Who this sizing approach works for

Best for

• Shoppers who are comfortable taking their own measurements and comparing them to a size chart
• People ordering a set who want each piece to fit independently rather than assuming one size fits all
• Anyone who prefers made-to-order lingerie and is willing to wait 10–14 days for the right fit

Not for

• Shoppers who want to try several sizes and return the ones that do not fit, since made-to-order pieces are not off-the-shelf
• Anyone who prefers to choose by their usual dress size without measuring
• People who need a piece immediately, because the 10–14 day production window applies to every order

Getting your Nearer The Moon size right comes down to three measurements and one habit: measure yourself, match to the size chart for that specific garment type, and check the fit notes before you order. Bras are band-first, corsets are waist-in-inches, and knickers are hip-plus-coverage. If you are between sizes or outside the listed range, use the sizing page or request custom sizing rather than guessing. A few minutes with a tape measure saves the longer wait of a remake.